The Friendship That Outlasted Everything
True friendship is rare. It survives distance, disagreements, and the passing of years. It is not measured by how often we talk or see each other, but by the depth of understanding that remains unshaken no matter how much time or space lies between us.
I have been blessed to know friendships that anchor me when life feels uncertain, that call me back to myself when I’ve wandered too far, that celebrate me without keeping score. These friendships are not built on convenience—they are built on truth, trust, and the kind of love that does not flinch when the hard seasons come.
For women, especially, friendships like these are essential. The world often teaches us to compete with one another, to view each other through the lens of comparison rather than connection. And yet, real friendship defies that narrative. It reminds us that our strength is multiplied, not diminished, when we stand side by side.
As a woman in leadership, these friendships are more than just comfort—they are lifelines. Leadership can be isolating. Decisions are heavy, expectations are high, and there are moments when it feels like every move is under a microscope. In those moments, having friends who see you—the person, not the position—is not just grounding, it’s life-saving.
These are the friends who will tell you the truth when no one else dares. They will remind you of your worth when the world is trying to reduce you to your last mistake. They will celebrate your wins without envy and hold you steady when the weight of responsibility threatens to pull you under.
Friendship at this level is sacred. It is a mirror, a refuge, and a compass. It is one of the invisible threads that hold our lives—and our leadership—together.
To cherish these friendships is to acknowledge that no matter how strong, independent, or capable we are, we were never meant to do life alone.
